Life Change Category

 

April 1st, 2011

“Winning”

 

It’s sad, but here’s the reality. Charlie Sheen isn’t alone in having, (how can I say this sensitively), a bizarre view of what it means to be “winning.” Our culture tends to get it wrong as well.

I think it’s absolutely essential that those of us who know Christ, the only valid path to “winning”, share Him with people who want it so badly but have lost their way.

NorthRidge is a church that is committed to sharing the truth and hope of Christ with all people, and Easter is the ultimate celebration of that truth and hope. So, we came up with a formula that can help people like Charlie find what they’re looking for…

Yes, it sounds crazy. And, some people will probably be offended…(something that happened to Jesus a lot.) But, we are simply trying to do what Jesus called us to do…help people find their way to what He created them for…”winning.” (See John 10:10)

Of course, for most, church is the last place they’d look. So, we want to wake people up to the fact that, though all of us have experienced boredom with church at one time or another, it doesn’t have to be that way. We want people to wake up to a new and different opportunity this Easter. Church can and should be authentic – a place where people can genuinely get to know God and His truth, move past their failures and experience the hope and promises of God.

“Duh…WINNING!”

 

 

 

March 2nd, 2011

Just Add Water

 
 

Compassion and generosity in action… thanks for caring and reflecting the love of Christ.

 

February 28th, 2011

Out of the Ashes

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Today, Chris Tomlin’s song, “Our God”, took on new meaning in my life…and the life of our team here in India. We had the privilege, (and I mean privilege), of spending time in two very special ministry homes.

The first was a special home for kids with aids. They are the kids of young ladies enslaved in and ravaged by prostitution. They are kids now being rescued and loved by some modern day heroes of the faith. From my description so far, you’d think it was a place of sadness and despair. Not even close. We were greeted at the door by kids filled with joy, giving us beautiful cards of welcome they had colored and grabbing our hands to show us into their home. I haven’t had so many hugs in a long time. They are precious. We were moved and inspired.

The second was a special home for girls who were born in the hopeless environment of the “red light district” of Mumbai…whose mothers had died. From every appearance, these were girls with no opportunities or hope. Girls with their futures seemingly sealed by their surroundings. But, because of grace and those who give their lives to share it with them, they have hope. They have escaped the darkness of their birthplace, and, more importantly, have found the transforming power of forgiveness and redemption. We got to spend time with them, pray for them, and experience them praying for us.  But, the moment that really stamped its place on my heart was when they led us in worship. Here they were…girls born into darkness, dysfunction, and devastation that most of us can’t even comprehend…singing with joy and depth, (way beyond their age), these words:

Into the darkness You shine
Out of the ashes we rise
There’s no one like You
None like You

Our God is greater, our God is stronger
God You are higher than any other
Our God is Healer, awesome in power
Our God, Our God…

Yes He is! It’s true for them. And, it’s true for us. His greatness, His grace, His willingness and ability to shine His light into our darkness and raise us out of the ash heap of our failures and circumstances, and His greatness are without question. The only questions have to do with our choices. Are we experiencing Him in this way? Are we helping others…in our world or around the world…to experience Him in this way?

Whether they fully comprehend it or not, the kids we experienced today could answer both questions with a resounding “yes.” Their lives…their joy that rises out of the ashes of their experiences…prove it. The way they impacted us proves it.

So, how about you? How would you…how are you…answering those two questions today?

 

February 17th, 2011

Sinlicious

 

I gave a talk last night at NorthRidge that is creating more chatter than normal…in the social media world…but also in me. I actually woke up still thinking about it this morning. I really do believe it’s a huge deal for believers that, unfortunately, is being missed.

Sin is the great enemy of life. (By sin, I’m not talking of petty little preferences that some believers and pastors try to make a sin. I’m talking about sin…declaring independence from God; rebelling against Him by pursuing our desires over His; disobedience to His clearly expressed truth and will.) Of course, most believers have this idea down…at least in their head. Checkout Romans 6:23 if you’re wrestling with the truth of this idea. In John 8:34, Jesus made it clear that it was the slave master for all of us.

However, though sin is the great enemy keeping us from experiencing the freedom and fulfillment that Christ purchased for us, we don’t treat it this way. If we’re honest, we trivialize it…even flirt with it…as if it’s not all that serious.

A good example of this is found in the fact that the most common use of the word is in relation to food…especially desserts. You know…this dessert is “sinfully delicious” or simply…”sinlicious.” Though seemingly innocuous, I believe that it’s a clear picture of our mindset towards sin. We tend to see it, like a great dessert, as something we shouldn’t do, but we wish we could…because God, like a weight watchers consultant, is robbing us of the best parts of life. (Of course, this isn’t new. Remember Eve looking at the “tree” thinking how “good” it looked?!) We really do tend to view sin as something, while not all that good for us…not all that bad either. After all, if we gain a couple of pounds, we can always lose them. Right?!

This attitude is killing us. It’s keeping us from the freedom and fulfillment that Christ came to give us, (John 8:32, 36 & 10:10). If we’re going to “stand firm” in our freedom, we must see sin for what it is…the great enemy of everything we desire in life…of everything Jesus came to give us.

Here are some recommendations that I’m working through in my life. If I want to experience life as God has designed it for me, then I must…

  • Hate sin…as much as I would cancer ravaging my body or the body of someone I love. After all, it’s a cancer that is destroying peoples lives both now and forever. (Psalm 97:10)
  • Fear sin…knowing that, unlike a sinlicious dessert, it is able to control, enslave, and destroy me. It can rob me of everything God desires for me. (Mark 9:42-48) (Note: since sin stems from the heart, Jesus isn’t teaching that cutting off a limb can keep us from sinning. He is clearly teaching that we should fear it so much that we will take drastic measures to cut it out of our lives.)
  • Understand we can overcome it…we’re dead to it. (Romans 6:2,11-14) Jesus said that He sets us free from the master of sin. We need to believe Him. When we allow Jesus to own and control us…sin no longer can.
  • Commit to overcoming it. (Daniel 1:8)

Helpful hints: Admit you have the tendency to trivialize it; Claim your power over it (John 8:36); Flee it (2 Tim.2:22 – when you know an area of weakness…stay away from it); fill-up on God’s Word (Ps119:9,11); and live in total submission to and reliance on God’s Spirit (Galatians 5:16).

Too many “sinlicious” desserts certainly isn’t good for you. But, sin is certain death. Let’s see it for what it is and stand firm in our Jesus bought freedom, (Galatians 5:1)

 

December 9th, 2010

“Work Smart”

 

I’m sure most of us have heard the old saying “work smart not hard.” Of course, as with most famous sayings, there is an intended truth and an unintended error. The error here is that, if we work smart, we can achieve our full potential without working hard. WRONG! Though there may be occasional exceptions to this, just as lightening does occasionally strike twice and a few have struck it rich through the lottery, the rule is that it takes working smart and hard.

For me, the saying would be far more valuable if it were cut in half.  ”Work smart.” Now, we have solid and more complete counsel. “Work” suggests the need for some discipline…some sweat equity…giving our all. “Smart” suggests the need to invest your labor in a way, place, and area where it has a chance…a greater probability to succeed.

Here’s my point, (finally, 3 paragraphs in), if we’re going to experience genuine success in our spiritual lives, (the most important and valuable area of our lives), we have to “work smart.” As with all of us, I experience a lot of seasons where, though working really hard at it, I’m sliding backward spiritually. In my devotional time with God this morning, I found a passage that highlighted the problem for me.

“The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green…,” Psalm 92:12-14.

Think about it. No matter how hard I work to flourish spiritually, if I plant myself in a spiritual wasteland…a place where God, His truth, and His people are not being experienced or expressed, I will fail. Where as, if I plant myself in a spiritually fertile place…(represented by the “house of the Lord” in the passage above), I will flourish when I invest myself in knowing, loving, obeying, and serving God.

So, for me, working hard at my spiritual life isn’t the whole issue. I need to make sure that I’m “working smart.”

How about you?

PS If you want to take this idea further, contrast Abraham with Lot. Where they planted themselves made a huge difference.

 

October 25th, 2010

“Do It Again!”

 

This past weekend, I did a talk, in our “Change Your Game” series, that focused on how we’ve lost the wonder of life. Though we were created to joyfully experience each day in a new and life-expanding way, Psalm 118:24, we’ve lowered each new day to being a simple repeat of all the days before. Solomon describes this sad and profound loss better than I ever could in the book of Ecclesiastes. (Checkout Ecclesiastes 1:5-9; 2:17-23)

I won’t repeat the talk here because you can listen to or watch it online at northridgechurch.com. But, I have to confess…this talk is really messing with me. Think about it…the reason we miss the wonder of each new day God shapes for us is because we’re not allowing Him to reshape us for that new day. We’re going into each new day with all of the old baggage of our many yesterdays. So, rather than experiencing a new day…we keep experiencing the same old day…over and over again.

As an illustration of this, I compared my grandkids sense of wonder in life with mine. Sadly, the difference is profound. When I twittered about this, someone reminded me that G.K. Chesterton had written a little about this in his book “Orthodoxy.” I found it and thought it might inspire you like it does me.

“A child kicks its legs rhythmically through excess, not absence, of life. Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, “Do it again”; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough… It is possible that God says every morning, “Do it again,” to the sun; and every evening, “Do it again,” to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike: it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.”

Of course, the answer, (which I seek to develop with a little more depth in my talk), is for us to faithfully be inviting God to reshape and remake our lives each and everyday. When we do, He makes it possible for us to experience each new day as genuinely new. When we do, we’ll find ourselves once again filled with wonder…constantly saying “do it again.”

I’d love to know if this messes with you as much as it’s been messing with me!

 

October 4th, 2010

Make Other People Better

 

After spending time reflecting on Philippians 2:3-5, I wrote the following to help me clarify what I am (or should be) striving for in my life and leadership. I have since put it in my prayer journal in order to help properly focus the motivation and direction of my prayers.

My purpose in life is not to be the best I can be in order to be better than other people. It’s to be the best I can be in order to help make other people better. I want to make better everyone who knows me.

Ministry is not about my success or me.  I don’t want to be the greatest of all time.  I just want to be used to the fullest of my potential for God’s glory.  I want to fulfill my potential for Him.  I want to become everything that God wants me to become.

The reality is that none of us are here to live for ourselves.  Therefore, when we live for ourselves, we never find ourselves or the joy and fulfillment that comes with it.  However, when we fulfill our purpose in living for others, we do find ourselves.

So…what does this look like in your context?

 

September 30th, 2010

God Transcends

 

In Romans 12:2, we learn that the transformation we all need and can experience stems from the “renewing” of our minds. How true. My personal story really does confirm it…as I’m sure yours does.

Think about it…the change from defeat to victory, doubt to confidence, wrong desires to right ones, despair to hope all involve a renewed/different kind of thinking about ourselves, circumstances, and God.

One of the areas of thinking that has really helped me continue to forge forward on my spiritual journey, when I apply it, is the truth that “God transcends.” He is above, beyond, and outside of my (our) circumstances and world. This is why, as Luke 1:37 tells us, “nothing is impossible with God.”

Here’s how it helps me on a daily basis, (again I need to say…when I’m actually applying it)…

When I’m facing challenging circumstances, (such as my own limitations, shortage of resources, or even the lack of opportunities), I seek to focus on, pray through, and meditate over this life changing truth…God transcends. He transcends my limitations, circumstances, resources, opportunities, challenges, and roadblocks. He transcends my impossibilities. And, in case you need me to remind you, He transcends yours as well.

If you’re having a tough time in any area of your life and you want to experience genuine change, you need to allow this truth to “renew” your mind. I believe committing Ephesians 3:20 to memory is a great place to start.

“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us…”

 

September 29th, 2010

Who versus What

 

I’ve really loved some things God has done in my life, ministry, and world over the years. The problem is that I tend to fall head over heels in love with what He’s done. It makes me want Him to keep doing it. When He doesn’t, it kind of rips me.

In truth, I’m finding this to be a fairly common problem that I have…one that I believe all of us share. Though we may start out loving Him purely, as He begins doing some wonderful things in, for, around, or through us, we can begin loving WHAT He’s done more than WHO He is. When this happens, we can begin developing some bitterness and anger towards Him if and when He chooses to stop doing it.

In my life, this ultimately can boil down to the foundational areas of life…trust and security. I begin trusting and finding security in what He’s done rather than in who He is. This is a very dangerous place to be and can have serious ramifications on my relationship with God, others, and self.

The solution…I need to remember that God has never promised to keep doing WHAT He’s always done. Fact is, He’s promised the opposite. He’s promised to do “new things”, (Isaiah 43:19). But, He has promised that WHO He is…faithful, trustworthy, unconditionally loving, everywhere present…will never change, (Malachi 3:6).

When I remember and embrace this, I can avoid falling in love with and trusting the wrong things. I, (and you), need to love and trust WHO God is…not WHAT He does.

Have you noticed this tendency in your life? How are you dealing with it?

 

September 23rd, 2010

Seek God Not His Promises

 

Often, God’s promises are NOT my experience. Don’t get me wrong. I love them and long for them. I seek them and pray for them. But, at times, to no avail. Lately, I think the veil’s been lifting on the reason…at least one of the reasons. I’m seeking and wanting the promises instead of God Himself.

Take contentment…one promise that we all universally desire. Of course, this promise comes in all kinds of forms. From Psalm 23:1, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want”, to 1 Timothy 6:8, with God…”if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.”

I’m finding that, when I lose contentment, it stems from wanting and seeking contentment more than God. Generally, it looks like this. I want something or to be somewhere that God is not presently providing or leading.  Simply, my source of contentment becomes something other than God and His will for my life.

When this happens, in order to experience the promise of contentment, I begin trying to take it by force. I seek to secure what I want or get to the place I want to be…anyway I can. And, I feel “righteous” and “justified” in doing it. After all, I’m seeking one of God’s promises.

Here’s the problem. This will never produce contentment. It will only move it further and further away from my reality. Sadly, this is where I often live…and, if you’re honest, it’s where you often live.

The good news…Jesus addressed this common problem head on in Matthew 6. People were looking for God’s promises but experiencing the opposite…worry, stress, and anxiety. Here’s the solution Jesus gave…”seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well”, Matthew 6:33.

In other words, stop seeking the promises and start seeking God.

So…what are you seeking?