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February 17th, 2011

Sinlicious

 

I gave a talk last night at NorthRidge that is creating more chatter than normal…in the social media world…but also in me. I actually woke up still thinking about it this morning. I really do believe it’s a huge deal for believers that, unfortunately, is being missed.

Sin is the great enemy of life. (By sin, I’m not talking of petty little preferences that some believers and pastors try to make a sin. I’m talking about sin…declaring independence from God; rebelling against Him by pursuing our desires over His; disobedience to His clearly expressed truth and will.) Of course, most believers have this idea down…at least in their head. Checkout Romans 6:23 if you’re wrestling with the truth of this idea. In John 8:34, Jesus made it clear that it was the slave master for all of us.

However, though sin is the great enemy keeping us from experiencing the freedom and fulfillment that Christ purchased for us, we don’t treat it this way. If we’re honest, we trivialize it…even flirt with it…as if it’s not all that serious.

A good example of this is found in the fact that the most common use of the word is in relation to food…especially desserts. You know…this dessert is “sinfully delicious” or simply…”sinlicious.” Though seemingly innocuous, I believe that it’s a clear picture of our mindset towards sin. We tend to see it, like a great dessert, as something we shouldn’t do, but we wish we could…because God, like a weight watchers consultant, is robbing us of the best parts of life. (Of course, this isn’t new. Remember Eve looking at the “tree” thinking how “good” it looked?!) We really do tend to view sin as something, while not all that good for us…not all that bad either. After all, if we gain a couple of pounds, we can always lose them. Right?!

This attitude is killing us. It’s keeping us from the freedom and fulfillment that Christ came to give us, (John 8:32, 36 & 10:10). If we’re going to “stand firm” in our freedom, we must see sin for what it is…the great enemy of everything we desire in life…of everything Jesus came to give us.

Here are some recommendations that I’m working through in my life. If I want to experience life as God has designed it for me, then I must…

  • Hate sin…as much as I would cancer ravaging my body or the body of someone I love. After all, it’s a cancer that is destroying peoples lives both now and forever. (Psalm 97:10)
  • Fear sin…knowing that, unlike a sinlicious dessert, it is able to control, enslave, and destroy me. It can rob me of everything God desires for me. (Mark 9:42-48) (Note: since sin stems from the heart, Jesus isn’t teaching that cutting off a limb can keep us from sinning. He is clearly teaching that we should fear it so much that we will take drastic measures to cut it out of our lives.)
  • Understand we can overcome it…we’re dead to it. (Romans 6:2,11-14) Jesus said that He sets us free from the master of sin. We need to believe Him. When we allow Jesus to own and control us…sin no longer can.
  • Commit to overcoming it. (Daniel 1:8)

Helpful hints: Admit you have the tendency to trivialize it; Claim your power over it (John 8:36); Flee it (2 Tim.2:22 – when you know an area of weakness…stay away from it); fill-up on God’s Word (Ps119:9,11); and live in total submission to and reliance on God’s Spirit (Galatians 5:16).

Too many “sinlicious” desserts certainly isn’t good for you. But, sin is certain death. Let’s see it for what it is and stand firm in our Jesus bought freedom, (Galatians 5:1)

 

December 9th, 2010

“Work Smart”

 

I’m sure most of us have heard the old saying “work smart not hard.” Of course, as with most famous sayings, there is an intended truth and an unintended error. The error here is that, if we work smart, we can achieve our full potential without working hard. WRONG! Though there may be occasional exceptions to this, just as lightening does occasionally strike twice and a few have struck it rich through the lottery, the rule is that it takes working smart and hard.

For me, the saying would be far more valuable if it were cut in half.  ”Work smart.” Now, we have solid and more complete counsel. “Work” suggests the need for some discipline…some sweat equity…giving our all. “Smart” suggests the need to invest your labor in a way, place, and area where it has a chance…a greater probability to succeed.

Here’s my point, (finally, 3 paragraphs in), if we’re going to experience genuine success in our spiritual lives, (the most important and valuable area of our lives), we have to “work smart.” As with all of us, I experience a lot of seasons where, though working really hard at it, I’m sliding backward spiritually. In my devotional time with God this morning, I found a passage that highlighted the problem for me.

“The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green…,” Psalm 92:12-14.

Think about it. No matter how hard I work to flourish spiritually, if I plant myself in a spiritual wasteland…a place where God, His truth, and His people are not being experienced or expressed, I will fail. Where as, if I plant myself in a spiritually fertile place…(represented by the “house of the Lord” in the passage above), I will flourish when I invest myself in knowing, loving, obeying, and serving God.

So, for me, working hard at my spiritual life isn’t the whole issue. I need to make sure that I’m “working smart.”

How about you?

PS If you want to take this idea further, contrast Abraham with Lot. Where they planted themselves made a huge difference.

 

December 2nd, 2010

Invisible Pathway

 

Wow…this passage lit me up big time this morning.

“Your path led through the sea,your way through the mighty waters, though your footprints were not seen. You led your people like a flock by the hand of Moses and Aaron,” Psalm 77:19-20.

This is all about the great exodus of God’s people from Egypt. In Exodus 14, we discover that God specifically led His people into an impossible circumstance. From a human standpoint, it was the worst leadership possible. He, through Moses, led them to a place of certain disaster…destruction. And, the people responded appropriately to this sorry leadership. They dogged Moses and God. Though it was a bit late, they wanted different leadership. They wanted out.

There’s only one problem with their response. It forgot to take into account that God ALWAYS KNOWS WHAT HE’S DOING AND CAN ALWAYS BE TRUSTED. As the Psalm above notes, God led them there because He had designed a pathway that was invisible to His people…but real none-the-less. It was the perfect pathway.

And, as you can read in Exodus 14, Moses, though He couldn’t see the pathway, knew and trusted God. In verse 13, He says to the complaining crowd…don’t be afraid…watch our God, the God of the impossible and invisible, do His AMAZING WORK. And, God opened up the invisible pathway by parting the Red Sea.

What a God! Yes. But, think of Moses. Because He genuinely knew God, He trusted, even when He couldn’t see the pathway, that God knew what He was doing. And, the result? He made a profound difference. He lived a life of significance. He was a leader worthy of following.

As for me…though I’m a great distance behind Moses…I want to be like Him. I want to know God so well that I am willing to follow Him into the impossible…I am willing to step off an obvious cliff when I know He’s leading…because I know that He sees the INVISIBLE PATHWAY that I don’t see. I want to make a difference, live a life of significance, and be a leader worth following. But, to do it…I have to trust God enough to walk the invisible pathway.

Come on…let’s follow God into the impossible and then through the Red Sea together. There’s nothing to lose and everything to gain.

 
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I had a couple people ask some questions about giving from this past weekend’s talk “The Great Call” from my series “Reach Beyond.” If you didn’t experience the talk, you can watch or listen to it by going here http://bit.ly/alBWkb.

Here’s a question I received: “Very good talks but it always brings one question up….should I give away all I have for those who don’t have as much??? Should I sell my house? My car? and send the money to those who don’t have water?? How far should we go to give to others??”

I really appreciate these kind of questions and the heart behind them. So, I thought I’d take a little time to answer them.

Though God does occasionally ask people to sacrifice significantly more…(e.g. house Acts 4:32-37), generally God is simply asking people to compassionately share with others out of the resources He’s provided, James 2:14-18.

It’s up to each person to decide in their heart what they should give, 2 Cor.9:6-8. Of course, the minimum standard is the tithe…10% of what God provides, Malachi 3:10. Then, we each have to decide how much more we will give to reflect Christ’s love to those who are hurting.

But, God does want us to use what He provides to support ourselves and our families, 1 Timothy 5:8; 2 Thessalonians 3:10. God also provides resources for us to enjoy, 1 Timothy 6:17. So, He’s not calling us all to give away everything we have so that we then have to live off of the generosity of others. He just doesn’t want us living for those resources or the pleasure they provide, and He doesn’t want us consuming everything for ourselves without reflecting His generosity and compassion to others, 1 Timothy 6:18-19.

So, how do we know how much to give? Well, there’s no perfect answer. However, I find that when I’m walking with God, sensitive to His leading, and observing the needs around me and in the world, God gives me the wisdom that I need to make the right decisions about how much to give.

Here’s the bottom line: God wants us to have a heart like Christ that doesn’t just consider our own needs and interests…but also others, Phil.2:3-7. Do you?

 

October 25th, 2010

“Do It Again!”

 

This past weekend, I did a talk, in our “Change Your Game” series, that focused on how we’ve lost the wonder of life. Though we were created to joyfully experience each day in a new and life-expanding way, Psalm 118:24, we’ve lowered each new day to being a simple repeat of all the days before. Solomon describes this sad and profound loss better than I ever could in the book of Ecclesiastes. (Checkout Ecclesiastes 1:5-9; 2:17-23)

I won’t repeat the talk here because you can listen to or watch it online at northridgechurch.com. But, I have to confess…this talk is really messing with me. Think about it…the reason we miss the wonder of each new day God shapes for us is because we’re not allowing Him to reshape us for that new day. We’re going into each new day with all of the old baggage of our many yesterdays. So, rather than experiencing a new day…we keep experiencing the same old day…over and over again.

As an illustration of this, I compared my grandkids sense of wonder in life with mine. Sadly, the difference is profound. When I twittered about this, someone reminded me that G.K. Chesterton had written a little about this in his book “Orthodoxy.” I found it and thought it might inspire you like it does me.

“A child kicks its legs rhythmically through excess, not absence, of life. Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, “Do it again”; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough… It is possible that God says every morning, “Do it again,” to the sun; and every evening, “Do it again,” to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike: it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.”

Of course, the answer, (which I seek to develop with a little more depth in my talk), is for us to faithfully be inviting God to reshape and remake our lives each and everyday. When we do, He makes it possible for us to experience each new day as genuinely new. When we do, we’ll find ourselves once again filled with wonder…constantly saying “do it again.”

I’d love to know if this messes with you as much as it’s been messing with me!

 

September 21st, 2010

Timing is Everything

 

I really do believe that God’s timing is perfect. (I believe anyone who genuinely believes in the God of the Bible needs to believe this. He’s all-knowing, all-powerful, and all-present. His timing must be perfect.) Here’s my problem. I don’t live like I believe it. So, I try to “make things happen” in my timing while seeking God’s help and giving God credit. Sound familiar?

This is dangerous and destructive. By trying to force or change God’s timing, we can actually mess up our lives by missing God’s will…even when we know it. As hard as it is, we need to learn to trust in and wait on God’s timing.

A great example of this is seen in the contrast of two Kings: David and Saul. King Saul believed in and knew the power of God. He experienced and lived it. But, when it came to trusting and waiting on God’s timing, He couldn’t do it, (1 Samuel 13:7-14). As a result, he messed up and missed God’s will for his life. Where as David, though his circumstances were more frustrating and fearful, practiced what He believed about God by waiting, (1 Samuel 26:7-11). He knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that it was God’s will for him to be King. He knew that God had removed His Spirit from Saul. But, though his life was at risk and years went by, David didn’t force the timing by killing Saul. He trusted in and waited on God’s timing.

Now, this doesn’t mean that we sit around singing “kum ba ya my Lord” and do nothing. It means that we do what we can do…remain faithful, invest ourselves fully in the areas of influence and responsibility that we’ve already been given, seize the opportunities God gives today, and keep growing, learning, and preparing. But, we should never seek to control what we cannot control or change what we cannot change. We should never compromise or shortcut God’s truth or our character to speedup His timing.

If we want to finish like David rather than Saul, then we need to, as difficult as it may be, trust in and wait on God’s PERFECT timing.

How are you doing at this?

 

September 17th, 2010

Daily Choice

 

I like to call our relationship with God a spiritual journey because, as with any relationship, it isn’t a onetime event. It’s a life long journey. And, in order to keep it fresh, it demands making the right choices…daily.

Lately, I’ve been thinking of it this way. Being born again, or from above, needs to be a daily experience. Yes, there is a first time…that moment where we acknowledge our guilt and need, place our full faith in Christ, and experience new birth. But, our relationship with God today cannot be based upon our choice yesterday, or twenty years ago…any more than the “I do” we say at our wedding is good enough to make our marriage great today.

When we’re not making the choice to be “born anew” daily, I believe we become stagnate or dead in our faith today, (e.g. John 15:5). When we don’t daily choose to draw our life and fulfillment from Christ, we begin loving, trusting, and looking to draw life and fulfillment from things of this world. We start loving the blessings of life more than the giver of life and blessings. This is the stuff of religion, and, in any form, it doesn’t work.

So, I’m wondering. Have you made the choice to be “born anew” today? Thoughts?

 

September 15th, 2010

Life Markers

 

If I’m honest, I get off track a lot…spiritually. Though I both regret and hate to admit it, there are times when this is a conscious choice. But, more often, it’s the result of unintentional and incremental changes in my life that, for lack of attention, move me away from full dependence on Christ. Because my desire to live for Christ is sincere, if I saw them, I would quickly confess and adjust them. Sadly, I often don’t notice them until it’s too late.

In order to prevent this in the future, I’ve recently identified some markers that I’m beginning to keep before me on a daily basis. You know…kind of like the lines in a road that keep us from unintentionally but dangerously sliding into the wrong lane.

My HEART – am I loving the right things? (Matthew 22:36-40)

My FOCUS – am I living for the right things? (Matthew 6:33)

My FAITH – am I trusting in the right things? (Proverbs 3:5-6)

My LIFE – am I experiencing the right things? (John 15:5; 10:10)

I’m finding that, as I keep these markers before me on a daily basis, they’re helping me to keep from sliding away from the life I long to live and crashing in ways I have regrettably experienced in the past.

Can you relate? What are some markers that help you?

 

September 14th, 2010

The Games We Play

 

This past weekend I started a new series called “Change Your Game.” And, it turned out to be a “game changing” weekend on so many levels. We were celebrating the one year anniversary of our first satellite church, NorthRidge Ann Arbor-Saline. We opened the doors to our second satellite church, NorthRidge Brighton-Howell, with over 1,100 (not including kid’s or student ministries.) We experienced a huge upswing in our overall attendance. And, most importantly, we know of ten who made the choice to receive Christ for the very first time. Yea God! Yea team.

The opening talk of this series focused on the realities that we’re not always who or where we want to be in life. But, (and this is a huge “BUT”), we can always have hope because of the potential God has given us for change. Though people tend to hate and resist it, change really is the basis of hope.

If you’re interested, you can check out my talk at this link http://bit.ly/9oMv0L.

If you were at one of our NorthRidge Church campuses this past weekend, or if you watched the talk online, I’d love to hear about your experience and/or how God used the talk in your life.

 

July 2nd, 2010

Pursuit of God

 

When I first became a true believer in and follower of Jesus Christ, I read a book that fully resonated with my newly born passion to know Him…”The Pursuit of God” by A.W. Tozer.

This book captured my longing to genuinely know and experience God. It put words to many of the challenges that I was facing in my own personal pursuit. And, it clearly expressed my bewilderment and, if I’m honest, my disdain for the multitudes of people who claimed the name “Christian” but seemed to have no personal knowledge of or real desire to know Christ. Though he wrote it nearly 30 years prior to my coming to Christ, it couldn’t have been more relevant to my experience in those days.

Because, (as we find illustrated in the lives of God’s people throughout the Bible and clearly expressed in Revelation 2:4), there is a natural tendency to lose this passion to know God over time…a tendency that I have certainly experienced…I seek to check the pulse of my passion for God by picking this book up periodically.

Recently, I did just that. In fact, it was the day before the 60th anniversary of when he wrote his preface to the book. And yet, with a couple of minor exceptions, it is still as relevant to my life, needs, desires, experiences, burdens, and thoughts as a believer as the first day I picked it up. It still makes my heart beat faster for God. It still challenges areas of lethargy that have crept into my spiritual life. It still makes me nod in agreement over the sad state of heart in the lives of so many self-professed “Christians” and “Churches”. Sadly, there are times that this includes the state of my own heart and that of the church I pastor.

What amazes me is that something so relevant today could have been written 60 years ago. And, even more, that something so alive with passion could have been written by a pastor who was in the twilight of his personal journey and ministry rather than at the beginning.

However, it shouldn’t really amaze me. After all, though it’s certainly not the majority nor necessarily the norm,  there are married couples who have more passion for one another after 50 years of marriage than on their honeymoon. Why? Because they’ve pursued each other with genuine love and faithfulness for a lifetime. So, how much more can this be true with God…whose love is perfect and character is flawlessly faithful. When we are genuinely experiencing God, our passion for Him will never diminish. It will continue to grow deeper and more real. When we have a passion problem, it’s simply because we have stopped pursuing and experiencing God.

Of course, nothing allows us to experience God and challenges our spiritual lives more than God’s Word…when we consistently expose ourselves to it and genuinely allow it to speak to us. But, I have to confess that there are times when God uses a person like Tozer and the book he wrote to shake me up or, as in this case, to re-shake me up in and to my “pursuit of God.”

I’m curious…do you have any books or people that do this for you? Even more importantly, how’s your passion for God these days?